LIVE UR LIFE
IN YOUR OWN STYLE
Life as it, itself a wonderful thing we have, it has to be lived up to its fullest .
But how many of us are doing exactly what we like? How many of us really like what they do?
Many do the work just because they are forced to do so. Many do, just because all other people are doing. Some do, because they have been pushed into that line either by their parents or others. Also there are people who do their work for money who in most cases wont end up with mental satisfaction. These people forget one important thing that they are not living their life. They some how find way to spend their life, escape from troubles which they never succeed.
Only those who do what they like or what they love to do, can reach great heights in their life.
They are the trend setters. Here are few real life examples.
Indar, a boy who likes to have fun just like every one does, was in his seventeens. He had just hen finished his high school and was waiting for his +2 results. Soon the results came in. He got very good marks in his board exams and got into one of the top colleges comfortably. When
it was time for him to enter into the college, he was caught in a myth that the struggle with studies are over and from there on its time for enjoyment alone. He then started making fun out of everything he comes across. He and his friends formed groups called themselves VVS guys.(Varutha padatha Vaalibar Sangam).His college days were like heaven for him. Time was running so fast that before he realize anything his end semester exams arrived. He took that so lightly and never put some extra efforts to score good marks. The exams were easy. But still, he couldn't do that very well. Then he had his holidays. Again it went so quickly that he could do anything usefully.
His exam results were awaiting him when his college reopened. Marks weren't good, but not too bad either. He almost got what he expected and thought its sufficient. But actually it wasn't. More than half the strength of the class were above his marks. He felt something strange, after being a class topper all through his school days. He started realizing that it wasnt good. Then he couldnt spend his time in fun like earlier as he felt something wrong when he does so. Also he couldnt study while his friends were talking and having fun. Again time was not waiting for him. Next end semester exams came. This time it was much worser as the exams were tough. In the holidays he had after the exams, he forgot all about studies and wanted to get ovet the set back. He had fun as always spend those days in tours with his family to many places.
This time, when his college reopened he decided to do what he likes. He had unlimited fun in free times and when it was time for studies he thought only about studies. This time he felt happier than ever before. He did only those he liked. He studied when wanted to study. He went out when he wanted, talked when he intended. He found his confidence level to be increasing. He relaxed himself in studies. He found fun in reading. Meanwhile, he participated in sports and got many prices. This time his sem exams were fast approaching , he was ready take that seriously this time. With that intension he faced his exams.
He never had the slightest intention that he couldnt change his fortunes. Everything fell on his way. He got very good marks and was among the toppers this time.
So, Indar, as he started living his life in his own style, tasted the fruits of it.
he chose his own life style and lived his life in style.
Alex, had a big craze for cars right from his childhood. He loved watching F1 racing in television. Even when he was a small child, he preferred car toys to play with. When he grew up, his craze for cars was also growing. He learnt driving in a very early age. But his father wanted him to become a software engineer. So his father bought him a computer. But this guy uses that computer only for playing games, car races in particular. He wasnt that much intrested in studies though he wasnt bad at it. He studies for compelsion but his passion was only car driving.
Whenever he happened to go out with his family in their car, this guy takes up the driver seat.
He completed his schooling. It was time for him to choose a career. He took to sofware engineering as per his fathers wish and also because he has no oppourtunity to go for driving in his small town.His college was in the capital of the state. He was an intelligent boy. He was good at studies but had no interest. As time progressed, he was loosing interest in studies. He started getting low marks. He was doing everything fine but couldnt concentrate in his studies as before.
He started to spend more time on making fun with his friends, to get over his some kind of stress. But his passion for driving never decreased.
One day he happened to go out with his friends to watch car race which was organised by MRF like a talent hunt for kids. There was also a race for those under his age group. Once he knew that Alex got very much excited and thought of participation since the entry fees was optimum and was affordable for him with any little help from his friends. But this poor guy didnt know that it has to be registered earlier. He got to knew that only when he approached the organisers. They turned down his request and send him off. He was standing there with regrets for himself.
He thought he had missed one golden opportunity.
But the lady luck smiled at him. When Alex and his friends decided to make a move. There was a voice in the loud speakers, that said that one of the participant couldnt make it up there as he met with an accident. So one of the cars is free and any one from the audience under this age group can participate. For Alex The words seemed to come from heaven. The next moment he was in the track inside his car in the last pole. The race started and consisted of 10 laps. There were 8 participants. In the first lap, he overtook two cars. In the next three laps another three cars. His fifth lap was the fastest that saw him beating two more cars. At the start of eighth lap he was placed second. His friends were cheering for him. Other audiences also supported him on seeing his incredible driving. Only one car was ahead with the last lap to go. The two cars were racing like anything. In two turnings he almost overtook him, yet he couldnt do that completely. Only two more tunings were there. The crowd was cheering "Alex... come on... do it.""come on Alex.. you can do it.. come on"...And he did, just that in style. He crossed the finishing line just milliseconds ahead of the other car to claim the first place. Alex was declared the winner. That was big turning point in his life.
After that spectacular victory, he got immense confidence and started to participate in many other races, whenever happened, in the city and got many prices. He started getting sponsers for him. After that he never turned back in his life. He started racing in international circuits. His success was increasing exponentially. He was coming up level by level in the formula racings. He faced success whereever he go. His father now supported him ,was ready to do any help for him. He is yet to make his formula 1 debut and am sure he would make it soon.
See this is what one can do if he has passion for on thing and he constantly aims at it.
Good luck guys.
Live your life in your own style.
Have an identity for yourself.
All the best...
see you guys..
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